Category: Writing and Motherhood
I leave the house feeling sexy. I’m driving down the road, and the feel of my body moving the clutch, and shifting, and turning the wheel through this sunny-day scenery is magnificent. Sure, I...
If you give a mom a snow day, she’s going to wish that her husband had the day off, too, so that she can sleep in. If you give a mom more time in...
Being a mother has not made me a perfect woman. Being a mother has not made my flaws magically go away. Instead, new parts of my personality that I wish would have stayed buried...
How to parent like a grown up in the age of smartphones: It’s easy to tell mothers that we should never look at our cell phones during the day with our kids. It’s good...
Taking a shower as a mother is a completely different experience. For one, even if there are no children screaming—even if it’s a miraculously, glorious day when I’m the only one in the house...
My hands are cold inside of gloves, and I worry about her much smaller fingers as we wait for the school bus. I pull her puffy hood over the fuzzy, grey hat that she...
Prioritizing pretend play in childhood—and beyond: It’s a cold Saturday, my husband’s at work, and my two children and I are holed up in the house. We break out the play food that the...
The house is littered with toys. I clean up, and a new mess happens. The girls play together, and I’m unable to fully explain how relieved this makes me, since they are a few years...
She asks to put on a crown, and I let her. I’m surprised by this request, because playing princess is not something we do. It’s not that I’m opposed to it, but she just...
The makings of a mommy timeout: It’s difficult for me to embrace time to myself unless it’s productive. There are things that I do that I don’t feel as guilty for doing by myself—exercise,...